Why Bringing Others Down Never Lifts You Up

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Jealousy and the Act of Bringing Others Down

Jealousy is one of the most destructive emotions a person can carry. It quietly eats away at kindness, peace, and self-respect. When someone feels jealous, they don’t just harm others — they harm themselves first. Trying to bring someone down, mocking their success, or demeaning their hard work might seem like power for a moment, but in truth, it is weakness disguised as pride.

Every person in this world is walking their own path. Some achieve success earlier, while others bloom later — but everyone has their own time. When we compare our journey with others, jealousy is born. Instead of learning from their achievements, we start wishing for their failure. This mindset blocks our own growth. We stop improving ourselves and waste our energy thinking about others.

A wise person once said, “Blowing out someone else’s candle doesn’t make yours shine brighter.” The act of bringing others down doesn’t raise us up — it only darkens the world for everyone. True strength lies in lifting others, in celebrating their victories, and in working harder for our own dreams without hatred or envy.

If we learn to replace jealousy with inspiration, everything changes. Instead of saying, “Why them?” we can say, “If they can do it, so can I.” This small shift in mindset turns bitterness into motivation and competition into growth.

In the end, kindness and encouragement always last longer than hate. Helping someone rise will never make you smaller; it makes you greater in ways money and fame never can. The world doesn’t need more people trying to pull others down — it needs more people who lift each other up.
 
On point. Just know that, the more we pull other people down, the more we get negative results in return and the more we don't get to achieve the ones we truly desire. We get not just single or double karma for wishing ill against others, and doing bad towards them but multiple karma. As what they say, it will be 10 thousand folds which is more painful. Let's just spread happiness and love towards each other.

We can be jealous but only to a point that we make them the reason why we strive harder to be successful too. Make them our inspiration. Not to the point that we do or wish bad against them because it's never a good thing to do and we will not be truly happy if we keep doing negative.
 
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